How to take an ‘L’ as a young adult

How to take an ‘L’ as a young adult

Hey Guys? What’s new? How’s your week been?

Yes, I know I’ve been MIA – let’s just skim over that and get right into it.

So, I’m sure you’re wondering what exactly an ‘L’ is. For those of you not down with the lingo, an ‘L’ stands for a loss. And as young people the losses we experience as we ‘adult’ tends to take a bigger toll on us and perhaps longer to recover from. So, I wanted to talk about the various lessons I learnt from my losses and how you can too…

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Why you don’t have to monetise your joy

Why you don’t have to monetise your joy

Hello Everyone! What’s new? How’s it going?

Now I should honestly hang my head in shame because I’ve been gone for two months. But I’m back and was recently inspired by an article on the trap of turning your hobby into a hustle. And it made me think why so many of us (myself included) are making our hobbies a source of income and not just something we enjoy.

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How To Deal With Burnout As A Young Adult

How To Deal With Burnout As A Young Adult
Hi Guys! How you doing? What’s new? 

So this topic has only recently become relevant to me as I’ve been experiencing it a lot myself these past few months. And that’s absolute burnout.

The tiredness that comes with having had thrown yourself into everything and feeling so finished at the end. And so many of us go through this without knowing how to deal with it, especially as young adults.

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The Struggle: Reclaiming the Black Aesthetic

The Struggle: Reclaiming the Black Aesthetic

*this first appeared on Brits & Pieces

It’s no secret that being black in this world is probably one of the hardest things to be. And being a black woman is even harder…

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Why I love getting out of my comfort zone

Why I love getting out of my comfort zone

Hey guys! What’s new? How’s your week been?

I know it’s been a while since my last blog post, but I’ve been doing some growing y’all!

So, I wanted to talk about the importance of getting out of your comfort zone to enable change. But how does one do this when fear always seems to keep you from trying new things…

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Why I stopped being so hard on myself

Why I stopped being so hard on myself

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So, I wanted to talk about how we can be really hard on ourselves, causing the very effects we are working to avoid. We end up experiencing more stress, worry and self-loathing, over failing to meet our goals. But in a world where doing more all the time is the norm, how can we treat ourselves with the upmost kindness and understanding…?

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Help! I feel like I’m not doing enough…

Help! I feel like I’m not doing enough…

Hey Guys! What’s new? How’s your week been?

So, I wanted to talk about feeling like you’re not doing enough when you can or should be doing so much more. Many of us young people struggle with this, especially in an era where you can create your own platform and opportunities. Yet, how can one overcome the sometimes debilitating feeling of not reaching your full potential?

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